One day from now,  Kim´s 14th birthday and 3 days from now  is Sascha´s 17th birthday.
The days and time is so very fast, I feel and think, they are still my babies, which i can do anything what i like, like for example buying their clothes to wear, which they are happy, egal what is the style and brand. the foods what i cook, they just eat without saying, I have no appetite or I am full......
When I say, you should or not do it or I would say, that´s fits you the style or that and that, so and so or yes or na ja......

but now, they have their owned taste and likes, they can say what they want to say, and they can say and tell me what they likes or not...........and they can say to  me now, before I got angry or shout at them.........they voice out their reasons now...........but with respect and love.

What I mean, when they´re  still in k-garten and school kids, I am the boss, i can do and say what i like for them, without hearing, talking back at me.........the clothes what i bought, they used it without saying its fits me or i don´t like it or or i like it..............they just only weared and used it without bad words.........everything what i bought and liked for them were all good for their eyes.....

in short, everything what i want and likes, they like and wants it too................they´re   still my babies who are dependent at   me.............

but now, they can do what they like, cooked what they like to eat, go shopping alone without me, they can hold their owned money and buy what they  wants and what they needs, without bringing me already..............in short, without me, they can do or buy  what they wants and  likes....

do what they  likes and wants to do???????........ja, but not means that,  they can do what they likes or wants which can harm them..........still under parentials guidance.....

and Sascha can now drinks alcohol and can smoke already, if he likes, which we, parents can´t say NO or against it.......................but Kim is not yet allowed on this, until she is 16.
Sascha can go disco and with a curfew hours up tp 12:00 midnight, and kim can´t  get inside in the disco house and curfew hours is until 10:00pm.

I am sad?......maybe, cause I am afraid, that someday they are not in my side, in our roof, and would not depend already us or at me...........

I am happy?..........i would say, sometimes,,,,,,,,,,,,,cause i have no more obligations at them, presently, like preparing their foods all time, cause they says, Mama, please don`t cook something for me today or this noon time, cause, i make or cook my owned or I would eat outside or I buy something outside...............

and i can go out right away, wherever i want, na ja 80%?, cause I can trust and depend at them, cause they can manage and care their selves now................

If God wills, sascha has still 3 semester in his school now,then he has to proceed in University, which we don´t know yet where, it´s better if it´s only in the neighboring Uni, then he can still live with us together.

 and kim, if she doesn´t like to continue in Real Schule or Gymnasium, she has 1-2 yrs. then she is finished her obligatory school..........then she has to learn a job....................when she learn a job, then she can pay or manage her own flat, she said, she likes to stay with her own...........

see, if all these plans come............then nur bernie and I alone......................kamingaw na no?..............but, what i pray only that,someday,  they have a good job for their future.........can have a good ausbildung-study that they can have a better job.

Then, i  can say already Master and Ph.d  na si ako in  my career..................then when I have already a grandchildren.............then i am successful mother and Lola too..................but please, God,  not yet this time......they are still my babies...............

Wishing your children the best birthday and hope they listen to you for their progress as kids need their parents guidance, and i know you are a good parent, stay blessed

awwww ka sweet naman nila sa ilang pics. kadali ra bitaw ang panahon sa? no matter what Vick sure is sila lang gihapon ato babies. Mao sab pirme nako sulti ni Julie na bisan unsaon baby lang gihapon nako siya.

advance Happy Birthday nilang duha ug best wishes.

God Bless. TAke care and have a wonderful week.

Hi Vicki, Happy Birthday greetings to Sascha & Kim!!! Time really flies fast - ang bilis ano? I wish both of them the best in life - all we can do as parents is hope & pray for their success & happiness. I will continue to pray for you and your family :)

I am still very busy - trying to catch up at home. I will email you longer soon and include pix. Take care & God bless.

Du bist aber so sehr süüüs Kim.... ein junger dame geborden im dein bild... in wirklichkeit noch nicht so........
Alles alles liebe zum eure Geburtstag wunsche ich alles,gesundheit und eure zukunft......Na Vicki weiss man nicht , vieleicht...bald du oma wirst oder später, oder nicht.... diba?....

geworden na siya ......... unsa daghan kana trabaho na dinha?.... unsa imo loto ron...:P:-?

Hi Bon na touch ko aning imong post oy :(
feel ko lang kong ako na sad ang ma mother mabati ko sad nang imong gibate diay karon.
ingon nila lisod jud kono mag padako ug anak dire sa europe kumpara sa pinas.
Pero para sa akoa mas ganahan man ko dire kay at age 18 independent na, di parehas sa atoa nga bisag mangapo na salig lang gihapon sa ginikanan. Smile ka lang diha bon kay ang LOVE ni Kim ug Sacha sa inyong duha ni Bernie di mawala BIG love gihapon bisag mohawa na sila sa inyong poder.
Ang vices, di jud malikayan sa mga teen ager labi na ang smoking naa jud na dire, kay madala man sa barkada - pero im sure pag ma mature na sila mo biyaa ra pod ana nga bisyo.
So smile diha oy kay maka wrinkles na ug sige emote hehehe nag emote baya pod ko maong laag ko didto sa bisdak planet aron katawa kay lisod nang magka wrinkles ta ani hehehe

ka gwapa ug gwapo sa inyong produkto oy :)
Happy birthday sa ilang duha, mwaaahhh

Awww Vicki! Your post makes me want to cry because I can really put myself in that same situation soon realizing that our kids grow up so fast! My daughter will be 11 years old next month and I dont know where the time went! I'll wake up one day and wonder why its so fast. Even today when I hug and caress them, I was thinking how little they use to be. Luckily, my girls still depends on me and believes a lot of the things I say with no argument...but I know that day will come... Here is a hug Vicki between mothers like you and I who will have a hard time letting go. By the way, your son is a good looking young man and your daughter so lovely...enjoy celebrating their birthday with them and dont forget to put pictures...

By the way, you got good timing Vicki to have their birthday so close together. You can just leave the decorations up all week for them both. haha..

Hi Vks, I can feel your sadness while reading your post. Happy Birthday to Kim and Sascha! You should be proud of your kids, they're growing up to become responsible adults. All we parents can do at this stage of their lives is to guide and advise them.

Hi,
Belated Happy Birthday to both of your kids! :)
mam, if you are familiar with the commericial of mc do maka hilak ka :( na sa dining area ang family with their kids completo pa sila but hinay-hinay pagdako isa-isa sad ang ilang anak nag settle down 'till sila nalang sa iyang husband na nga-on kay all their kids had their own family naman sad. Pwede pa lang nato ma pug-ngan ang pagdako buhaton jud nato but we can't.:( all we have to do as parents ( ngek we pa as if sad ko parent na heheh) to guide them...:)
hoist, i feel envious gani kay naa nakay ulitawo ug daga ang ako mam heheh wala pay na porma...heheh

wala pay bag-o dire Bon? psst naghubag akong pilok kay nihilak ko kay shalan napilde ang germany, di ko motan-aw unya sa france vs. portugal mahadlok ko makadaog na pod ang portugal na basig ma bazooka ko ning akong silingan nga portuguese, arang sabaa jud raba ani nila kulang nalang pati kaldero nila ipanglabay sa gawas tungod sa saba.

Hello all My Thoughtful, Kind, True,and Really Friends,,,,,Thank You very much for all your Greetings to my Two Babies Bday.....tomorrow is Sascha´s Bday.....the party of kim yesterdy was nice and we´re all enjoyed celebrating it with my in-laws and their Family.........Thank You very much for all your thoughtfulness......it gives me happy and think that somewhere there, there is anybody who care us and who are really my friends........

I am sorry, if what i write here maybe corny or sad or i am already thinking in advance that is not yet happened, when i write this, that´s what I felt, i felt that someday I am alone and they are far from me, and can´t visit me because they are busy at their family and jobs, that someday I am alone...esp. when I am old....sana Kung this is Phils. it is ok, I have relatives and family......But, now I accept it....as time goes by, it will be happened, either I like it or not......
God is Good and He cares me too....

Again, deep in my heart, thank you to all your thoughtful greetings.........vicki

wow ang ulitawo ug dalaga ni vicki, they look lovely kaayo n sweet. I wish them both a HAPPY B-DAY from tita coco muah.

Hi Vks, you've got two good looking teenagers here. I can only sympathize with your concerns, but sooner or later parents should really let their children go and experience life for themselves. Their best weapons will be the good things you instilled in them growing up. Don't be sad but just continue to pray for them, I'm sure they'll be fine.

By the way, we're devastated that England didnt win, they'r not really good at taking penalty shots, lol. But I'm happy that Italy won, I was really rooting for them in the finals.

Ing-ana gyod na Vicki ang mga bata sa Europe pero depende rapod na sa imo pagpadako nila. Daghang salamat diay sa tanan sa imong pag-abi abi nako. Di gyod ka nako makalimtan. You are my big sister, a true best friend.:)

hello bon musta nama? dia napod ko:) hahahah daoy nagbreak ko nangadlawon ko ug limpyo ug laba unsaon nalang:) anyway nyt nyt:)

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